Recently, I found out that he had downloaded apps on his phone (Tinder and How About We) sometime after I moved away.I assure you I didn't find out in a dishonorable way; it was purely an accident that I wish I could forget.I'm scared to argue over the phone about this so I investigated my leads and found his profile to be deactivated but that still doesn't necessarily demonstrate his intentions on those sites.I'll be seeing him in less than a week for the first time in months to celebrate our four-year anniversary, and I don't know what to do and how I should address it assuming I even mention it."My boyfriend and I had been living together for a year until I moved out four months ago for graduate school.I have to admit, things have been rocky but for the most part we've been able to get past all of our obstacles of long-distance hardships and trust issues.
Do you have a relationship, dating or sex question?Unfortunately, dating sites and apps can allow men and women to have secret interactions and flirtations and in some cases, entire relationships, without the risk of their husbands or girlfriends catching them in the act.Fortunately, these sites aren't as safe and anonymous as would be adulterers and cheaters would like to believe.Hi Guys, My boyfriend has just walked out on me after three years of what I thought was a great relationship. Yes, you did breach the trust of your relationship by snooping, but we can assure you that you’re not the one who caused irreparable damage to the relationship. Because otherwise we can’t see how you could “accidentally” discover he was on a dating site.I discovered by accident he had been using a dating site, and in the last two months had been winking and flirting with women on it. And he has made me feel like I’m such an awful person. (That’s why “accident” is in quotes.) But the problem here, is once you procure information in a covert fashion it’s very difficult to do much with it. Don't get me wrong: In your shoes, I would be upset, but I think it's possible you can get through this.